{"id":398,"date":"2015-12-23T03:01:16","date_gmt":"2015-12-23T03:01:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.breakthroughbasketball.com\/hubershow\/?p=398"},"modified":"2019-01-31T15:04:15","modified_gmt":"2019-01-31T15:04:15","slug":"18","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.breakthroughbasketball.com\/podcast\/18\/","title":{"rendered":"#18 Zeller Part 2 \u201cNavigating The Recruiting Process &#038; Letting &#8216;Em Go&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"powerpress_player\" id=\"powerpress_player_7868\"><!--[if lt IE 9]><script>document.createElement('audio');<\/script><![endif]-->\n<audio class=\"wp-audio-shortcode\" id=\"audio-398-1\" preload=\"none\" style=\"width: 100%;\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"audio\/mpeg\" src=\"https:\/\/media.blubrry.com\/breakthrough\/content.blubrry.com\/breakthrough\/Huber_Zeller_Final_Part_2.mp3?_=1\" \/><a href=\"https:\/\/media.blubrry.com\/breakthrough\/content.blubrry.com\/breakthrough\/Huber_Zeller_Final_Part_2.mp3\">https:\/\/media.blubrry.com\/breakthrough\/content.blubrry.com\/breakthrough\/Huber_Zeller_Final_Part_2.mp3<\/a><\/audio><\/div><p class=\"powerpress_links powerpress_links_mp3\" style=\"margin-bottom: 1px !important;\">Podcast: <a href=\"https:\/\/media.blubrry.com\/breakthrough\/content.blubrry.com\/breakthrough\/Huber_Zeller_Final_Part_2.mp3\" class=\"powerpress_link_pinw\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Play in new window\" onclick=\"return powerpress_pinw('https:\/\/www.breakthroughbasketball.com\/podcast\/?powerpress_pinw=398-podcast');\" rel=\"nofollow\">Play in new window<\/a> | <a href=\"https:\/\/media.blubrry.com\/breakthrough\/content.blubrry.com\/breakthrough\/Huber_Zeller_Final_Part_2.mp3\" class=\"powerpress_link_d\" title=\"Download\" rel=\"nofollow\" download=\"Huber_Zeller_Final_Part_2.mp3\">Download<\/a><\/p><p class=\"powerpress_links powerpress_subscribe_links\">Subscribe: <a href=\"https:\/\/itunes.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/breakthrough-basketball-jim\/id1038442051?mt=2&amp;ls=1#episodeGuid=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.breakthroughbasketball.com%2Fhubershow%2F%3Fp%3D398\" class=\"powerpress_link_subscribe powerpress_link_subscribe_itunes\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Subscribe on Apple Podcasts\" rel=\"nofollow\">Apple Podcasts<\/a> | <a href=\"https:\/\/www.breakthroughbasketball.com\/podcast\/feed\/podcast\/\" class=\"powerpress_link_subscribe powerpress_link_subscribe_rss\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Subscribe via RSS\" rel=\"nofollow\">RSS<\/a> | <a href=\"https:\/\/www.breakthroughbasketball.com\/podcast\/subscribe-to-podcast\/\" class=\"powerpress_link_subscribe powerpress_link_subscribe_more\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"More\" rel=\"nofollow\">More<\/a><\/p><p><strong>Why You Should Listen?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>As parents our desire is to control our children\u2019s choices especially when it comes to making a college decision.\u00a0 This desire is only natural when it involves people you love, but it must be controlled, nonetheless.\u00a0 Steve and Lori Zeller had three sons that were Mr. Indiana basketball players and were highly recruited.\u00a0 They learned quite a bit through their first experience with Luke to know things not to do during the recruiting process.\u00a0 That experience guided them to make their home a safe haven for Tyler and Cody to express themselves as they figured out the best college to attend.\u00a0 Making this decision can be very stressful and challenging for young men and women to make.\u00a0 Steve and Lori discuss developing the proper mindset in regard to parenting with your children and making their passions flourish rather than controlling them to fit into your own plans.<\/p>\n<p>It is important once your child makes their college choice that you realize as a parent it is no longer your job to carry them through their challenges.\u00a0 As parents it\u2019s important to know both your own role and roles of others in the lives of your children.\u00a0 Attempting to play every role in your children\u2019s lives is a form of coddling and ultimately reflects your desire to control every situation, thus stunting their own maturation.\u00a0 Part of being a parent is allowing coaches to be coaches.\u00a0 Our society needs more of a let them go mentality.\u00a0 It\u2019s difficult for parents to sit on the sidelines and allow the game to unfold, but it is a part of letting go.\u00a0 It is up to your children to take everything you have taught them into the world and handle adversity on their own.\u00a0 A loss of control can actually become something that propels everyone to the next level if hardship is approached with the right attitude.<\/p>\n<p>Steve and Lorri Zeller (parents of Luke, Tyler, and Cody Zeller) provide an inside look, in their book <a href=\"https:\/\/zellerbook.com\/\">\u201cRaising Boys The Zeller Way,\u201d<\/a> at the principles they implemented in their household.\u00a0 Luke, Tyler, and Cody each finished at the top of their high school class, won Indiana&#8217;s famed Mr. Basketball award, went on to play basketball at Division I universities, and play in the NBA. But most importantly, they have turned out to be high character people.<\/p>\n<p>In this Podcast, Steve and Lori give tips on how parents can make sure that the recruiting process doesn\u2019t control their children.\u00a0 They will also give you strategies how to support your child through the challenges they will face participating in college athletics.\u00a0 The Zeller\u2019s help us understand that parenthood gives us the greatest responsibility in the world but also the greatest opportunity to give something to the world.\u00a0 Parents need to realize it is more important to be remembered for not what we did, but rather for what our children become.<\/p>\n<p>There is so much great information throughout this interview.\u00a0 Our hope is this podcast will give parents the tools to guide and support their children through the recruiting process and allow them to support and enjoy their college experiences!<\/p>\n<p>Enjoy this episode of The Jim Huber Show!<\/p>\n<p><strong>What You will Hear In This Podcast<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>0:25- \u201cHoosier Hysteria\u201d What is the Hatchet House<\/li>\n<li>2:08- The Impact that Luke Zeller and a Bus Driver had on Each Other<\/li>\n<li>4:21- Luke Writes a Letter in Support of his Coach to Finish what he Started<\/li>\n<li>5:38- The story of \u201cThe Shot\u201d that is Legendary in Indiana High School Basketball<\/li>\n<li>8:30- What Luke did After \u201cThe Shot\u201d to Make his Parents Most Proud<\/li>\n<li>9:21- A North Carolina Tar Heel Tradition to get Kids to Realize it is not About Them<\/li>\n<li>10:03- Meeting Coach John Wooden at the McDonald\u2019s All-American Game<\/li>\n<li>12:08- Coach Wooden Willing to give up 2 National Championship Rings for 1 Indiana State Championship Ring<\/li>\n<li>12:35- A Story that Emphasizes Coach Wooden\u2019s Character<\/li>\n<li>13:47- The Inspiring Story of Seth Coy Overcoming Challenges and Obstacles to Play Division I Basketball<\/li>\n<li>16:18- The Impact of Seth Coy\u2019s Life Transforming the Washington, Indiana Community<\/li>\n<li>17:40- How Zellers Handle Luke not Playing at Notre Dame After Being a McDonald\u2019s All-American<\/li>\n<li>19:09- Encouraging Your Children to Visit with their Coach About any Issues<\/li>\n<li>20:22- Advice to Parents who Want to Pick up the Phone and Call their Child\u2019s College Coach<\/li>\n<li>21:01- Steps that Parents Should Take in Communicating with their Child\u2019s High School Coach<\/li>\n<li>22:14- The most Effective way for Parents and Children to go Through the Recruiting Process<\/li>\n<li>23:45- The Need to Control Recruiting Instead of it Controlling You<\/li>\n<li>24:26- Homework and Preparation Needed Before Taking a College Visit<\/li>\n<li>25:25- Questions Your Child Should ask a College Coach During the Recruiting Process<\/li>\n<li>26:30- How Cody Zeller got Tom Crean to Cry on making his College Choice<\/li>\n<li>28:18- The Best Ways to Help your Children make their College Decision<\/li>\n<li>31:30- Steve Zeller felt the Importance of Visiting with the President of the University<\/li>\n<li>32:18- A Near Death Experience that made Steve Realize he Fulfilled his Responsibility as a Father to Build Character in his Children<\/li>\n<li>34:19- Most Courageous thing Steve did as a Child that was a Stepping Stone to his Relationship with God<\/li>\n<li>35:29- Parents have a great Opportunity to give a Gift to the World with Raising your Children Appropriately<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Follow on Twitter: <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/ZellerBook\">@ZellerBook<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Follow on Facebook:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/RaisingBoysTheZellerWay\/\">https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/RaisingBoysTheZellerWay\/<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/zellerbook.com\/\">Find information on \u201cRaising Boys The Zeller Way\u201d<\/a><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;d love to know your thoughts after you check out the interview. What resonated? What did you learn?<\/p>\n<p>Hit me up\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/JimHuberShow\">@jimhubershow<\/a>\u00a0or reply back to this email<\/p>\n<p>Remember: \u201cLet\u2019s Make The World Better Through Sports\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Why You Should Listen? 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