I'm a pretty good player. Or at least I think so. But my coach and a lot of people keep telling me I'm too soft. I'm 6 feet tall and 13 yrs. old. I need something that can help me be more aggressive. Thanks.

I'm glad that you feel good about yourself and your abilities..... here are a few things to concentrate on.....

1- Play shut down defense and be ready to help out a teammate if they get beat.
2- REBOUND ..... at 6 feet tall and only 13 you should be doing a good job on the boards...
(both 1 & 2 are all about having the desire to excel in those areas.
3- Think that every loose ball is YOURS - get on the floor after it
4- If someone drives the lane, take a charge

Play HARD all the time and most of all HAVE FUN!!

I hope this helps, let us know how its going.